Comments on: Honeymoon Sickness: Urinary Tract Infections http://www.veitchsmith.com/2007/09/30/honeymoon-sickness-urinary-tract-infections/ articles on Christianity, lifestyle and more... Mon, 26 Jul 2010 09:27:03 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Fiona http://www.veitchsmith.com/2007/09/30/honeymoon-sickness-urinary-tract-infections/comment-page-1/#comment-7107 Fiona Tue, 01 Jun 2010 08:32:44 +0000 http://www.veitchsmith.com/2007/09/30/honeymoon-sickness-urinary-tract-infections/#comment-7107 Yeah, sounds like this incident revealed your ex's true colours! Most decent men would be disappointed, yes, but support you through it. There's far more to a relationship than sex. This seems to have revealed an inherent selfishness in him. Without knowing the situation, so I'm in no position to pass any judgment, it wouldn't surprise me though if it hadn't been for this he would have manifested his true nature in another way, another time. Good luck with the celibacy. Yeah, sounds like this incident revealed your ex’s true colours! Most decent men would be disappointed, yes, but support you through it. There’s far more to a relationship than sex. This seems to have revealed an inherent selfishness in him. Without knowing the situation, so I’m in no position to pass any judgment, it wouldn’t surprise me though if it hadn’t been for this he would have manifested his true nature in another way, another time. Good luck with the celibacy.

]]> By: Andrea http://www.veitchsmith.com/2007/09/30/honeymoon-sickness-urinary-tract-infections/comment-page-1/#comment-7042 Andrea Sat, 29 May 2010 18:48:08 +0000 http://www.veitchsmith.com/2007/09/30/honeymoon-sickness-urinary-tract-infections/#comment-7042 This event was a turning point in my life. I still feel if there had been no traffic jam I would be happily married today and a completly different (normal) person. After the first kidney infection, described above, I had one UTI after another then another sever kidney infection that almost killed me. These were caused (I feel) by my continuing attempt to perform my wifely duties at the insistence of my husband. Since we separated, I have not had any more UTI's. I intend to live out my life in celibacy. Men and sex have no place in my life and never will again. This event was a turning point in my life. I still feel if there had been no traffic jam I would be happily married today and a completly different (normal) person.

After the first kidney infection, described above, I had one UTI after another then another sever kidney infection that almost killed me. These were caused (I feel) by my continuing attempt to perform my wifely duties at the insistence of my husband. Since we separated, I have not had any more UTI’s. I intend to live out my life in celibacy. Men and sex have no place in my life and never will again.

]]> By: Fiona Veitch Smith http://www.veitchsmith.com/2007/09/30/honeymoon-sickness-urinary-tract-infections/comment-page-1/#comment-7022 Fiona Veitch Smith Fri, 28 May 2010 14:41:57 +0000 http://www.veitchsmith.com/2007/09/30/honeymoon-sickness-urinary-tract-infections/#comment-7022 Thanks for sharing that in such graphic detail, Andrea :) Sorry about your divorce though. Thanks for sharing that in such graphic detail, Andrea :) Sorry about your divorce though.

]]> By: Andrea http://www.veitchsmith.com/2007/09/30/honeymoon-sickness-urinary-tract-infections/comment-page-1/#comment-6999 Andrea Thu, 27 May 2010 23:03:50 +0000 http://www.veitchsmith.com/2007/09/30/honeymoon-sickness-urinary-tract-infections/#comment-6999 I had a similarly bad experience on my honeymoon. We left the reception for what should have been a 45 minute drive to our hotel. About half way there was a traffic jam, we were stranded between exits on the freeway. After over 3 hours I had to pee like I never had before. It got so bad I was sure I would burst but there were cars on both sides of us with men in them. I told Bill that I couldn't hold it any longer and felt like I would die if I didn't get relief. He suggested I pee in a large plastic cup that was in the back seat. I was so desperate I decided to try it. I got out of the car and got in the back seat and managed to remove my panties without much leakage. I held the cup and started to pee. I was so full it only started in a little dribble at first, driving me crazy with the urge to go. Then it came out in such a surge that it knocked the cup out of my hand and I peed all over the floorboard in the back seat. While I was going, the pain never stopped and was so bad I was screaming and crying. After no more would come out I was still in pain but didn't have that full bloated feeling in my bladder. When we got to the hotel, I was still in pain and could hardly walk because of the burning and pain. We got up to the room, I decided to sit in a warm bath to try and relieve the pain. Bill was so turned on by all this that he kept telling me to hurry and go to bed. That was absolutely the last thing I wanted to do but I didn't want to ruin it for him so I got up and we went to bed. His attempt at foreplay caused be extreme pain but I tried to hide it. When we did it my pee hole was burning so bad I couldn't help but let out little screams. He thought it was just my passion with the sex. The next morning I was still in extreme pain, he wanted to do it again but I told him I couldn't because I was still in pain. His disappointment caused me cry again so I held him and we did it but it was worse than the night before for me. That afternoon my period started 3 days early and I felt so bad we decided to go home. I went to my doctor and he said I had strained my urethra and had a UTI. After treatment for 3 days it got worse with a high temperature, I had to go in the hospital with IV antibiotics for 2 days. I'm sure this was a large part of the reason and we got divorced a year later. Andrea I had a similarly bad experience on my honeymoon. We left the reception for what should have been a 45 minute drive to our hotel. About half way there was a traffic jam, we were stranded between exits on the freeway. After over 3 hours I had to pee like I never had before. It got so bad I was sure I would burst but there were cars on both sides of us with men in them. I told Bill that I couldn’t hold it any longer and felt like I would die if I didn’t get relief. He suggested I pee in a large plastic cup that was in the back seat. I was so desperate I decided to try it. I got out of the car and got in the back seat and managed to remove my panties without much leakage. I held the cup and started to pee. I was so full it only started in a little dribble at first, driving me crazy with the urge to go. Then it came out in such a surge that it knocked the cup out of my hand and I peed all over the floorboard in the back seat. While I was going, the pain never stopped and was so bad I was screaming and crying. After no more would come out I was still in pain but didn’t have that full bloated feeling in my bladder. When we got to the hotel, I was still in pain and could hardly walk because of the burning and pain. We got up to the room, I decided to sit in a warm bath to try and relieve the pain.

Bill was so turned on by all this that he kept telling me to hurry and go to bed. That was absolutely the last thing I wanted to do but I didn’t want to ruin it for him so I got up and we went to bed. His attempt at foreplay caused be extreme pain but I tried to hide it. When we did it my pee hole was burning so bad I couldn’t help but let out little screams. He thought it was just my passion with the sex. The next morning I was still in extreme pain, he wanted to do it again but I told him I couldn’t because I was still in pain. His disappointment caused me cry again so I held him and we did it but it was worse than the night before for me. That afternoon my period started 3 days early and I felt so bad we decided to go home. I went to my doctor and he said I had strained my urethra and had a UTI. After treatment for 3 days it got worse with a high temperature, I had to go in the hospital with IV antibiotics for 2 days.

I’m sure this was a large part of the reason and we got divorced a year later.

Andrea

]]> By: Fiona Veitch Smith http://www.veitchsmith.com/2007/09/30/honeymoon-sickness-urinary-tract-infections/comment-page-1/#comment-6612 Fiona Veitch Smith Mon, 10 May 2010 08:18:53 +0000 http://www.veitchsmith.com/2007/09/30/honeymoon-sickness-urinary-tract-infections/#comment-6612 Thanks for the tips Leigh and I hope it clears up soon, Fiona Thanks for the tips Leigh and I hope it clears up soon,

Fiona

]]> By: Leigh http://www.veitchsmith.com/2007/09/30/honeymoon-sickness-urinary-tract-infections/comment-page-1/#comment-6573 Leigh Fri, 07 May 2010 12:23:33 +0000 http://www.veitchsmith.com/2007/09/30/honeymoon-sickness-urinary-tract-infections/#comment-6573 This is one of the most helpful things I have read - currently suffering both UTI and thrush. Having both is a pain because stuff like cranberry which is great for UTI isn't really helpful for thrush. One thing that I can add is the importance of rest! Not soaking in a bath is also important even though it gives short term relief and can help you sleep. It definitely makes thrush worse. This is one of the most helpful things I have read – currently suffering both UTI and thrush. Having both is a pain because stuff like cranberry which is great for UTI isn’t really helpful for thrush. One thing that I can add is the importance of rest!

Not soaking in a bath is also important even though it gives short term relief and can help you sleep. It definitely makes thrush worse.

]]> By: Monica http://www.veitchsmith.com/2007/09/30/honeymoon-sickness-urinary-tract-infections/comment-page-1/#comment-5836 Monica Tue, 23 Mar 2010 17:56:40 +0000 http://www.veitchsmith.com/2007/09/30/honeymoon-sickness-urinary-tract-infections/#comment-5836 try D-Mannos, it works beatifully and you will never need antibiotocks again. Use it at first sign of trouble,follow instructions. Find it on line, it costs about $ 25 and enough for several attacks. It is a natural substance. try D-Mannos, it works beatifully and you will never need antibiotocks again. Use it at first sign of trouble,follow instructions. Find it on line, it costs about $ 25 and enough for several attacks. It is a natural substance.

]]> By: Fiona Veitch Smith http://www.veitchsmith.com/2007/09/30/honeymoon-sickness-urinary-tract-infections/comment-page-1/#comment-3954 Fiona Veitch Smith Wed, 11 Nov 2009 10:13:47 +0000 http://www.veitchsmith.com/2007/09/30/honeymoon-sickness-urinary-tract-infections/#comment-3954 Glad to be enlightening men too, Yaw. Good luck with the treatment. Glad to be enlightening men too, Yaw. Good luck with the treatment.

]]> By: Yaw http://www.veitchsmith.com/2007/09/30/honeymoon-sickness-urinary-tract-infections/comment-page-1/#comment-3952 Yaw Tue, 10 Nov 2009 19:01:19 +0000 http://www.veitchsmith.com/2007/09/30/honeymoon-sickness-urinary-tract-infections/#comment-3952 Thanks for the info, now I understand better what is going on in my wife. We will be calm now and seek treatment immediately. Thanks for the info, now I understand better what is going on in my wife. We will be calm now and seek treatment immediately.

]]> By: Fiona Veitch Smith http://www.veitchsmith.com/2007/09/30/honeymoon-sickness-urinary-tract-infections/comment-page-1/#comment-2146 Fiona Veitch Smith Sun, 14 Jun 2009 13:16:42 +0000 http://www.veitchsmith.com/2007/09/30/honeymoon-sickness-urinary-tract-infections/#comment-2146 Just when you thought you were safe! Thank goodness you finally figured out what was causing it. Just when you thought you were safe! Thank goodness you finally figured out what was causing it.

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